LIFESTYLE

I just read the Thundercat's article on creating a LifeStyle that makes a person naturally attract other people.

Guys think they can succeed without getting out and meeting women (Till now I've been one of them). They actually avoid going to bars and places where they can meet women. Either it is too hectic for them, they think it's a chore. They also have many excuses to cover up their procrastination. They just wouldn't create that lifestyle they need to be successful.

I can hear myself in the above lines. This has been my mistake as well. David keep on telling everyday that it's necessary to go out and sarge but I am understanding this concept today. Although it was in my mind as to how will I meet women in a city like jalandhar.

The answer is lifestyle. If I want hot, beautiful, sassy women I must connect myself with fashion industry in some way, modelling or any such related things. If I want women who are intelligent and sexy, I must go to places where they teach yoga or take some other classes. The answer is that if I want to be successful with women, I must create the required lifestyle first. I can get it now, thank God! It's such a simple thing to understand.

I've been focusing at taking things easy. I don't want to go through the pains involved in learning a new skill. I am still comfortable with my old, lazy and bachelor kind of a lifestyle. Watching pornos whenever I want, thinking of anything I like. There are positive things attached to it as well, like I am able to focus on my goals. But the problem is that thinking of success with women takes up so much of my energy that it is not well-coordinated and focused well on my goals in general. And when I say I must have success with women, I start thinking I am getting needy. Practically and really, these are all damn excuses I am making in order to stay comfortable in my skin. As a man, It's natural for me to be successful with women. And this has been the MOST challenging part of my life. All my problems have arised due to lack of confidence in this field only. If there is anything I must master to achieve a lasting, happy life, it's the art of seduction.

Another thing is that I blame everything at the universe. I have learned the principles that will make me create the life of my dreams but whenever anything happens which is due to my own irresponsibility to take required action or to be authentic in general, I simply blame it on the universe. I am probably using these laws to create excuses for my own shortcomings. How creative I am?

I am not hitting on myself hard but a lot of things come up whenever I write. I must learn to take the responsibilities. The nature has created things in a way that only the ones who can prove their worth have access to the most beautiful and pleasurable things of life. That's the way it is. It's not perfect, but in that way, it's truly perfect. (strange, huh?)

Nice realization!!

Eagle.